Wednesday, December 13, 2017

I AM A DRAGON

My youngest daughter committed suicide last year. And for me, I only had two choices... self-destruct or become the best version of myself. I recently had a friend that told me, "You have to understand that not everyone is like you, Nancy" I said to her, "EXACTLY! People have to understand that I am NOT like them!" And, that's the reason I thought about this quote.

Expressing myself has always been very important to me! I say exactly what I think and feel. I don't lie. Some people like me because of that and some people hate me for it. I can't please everybody. I've been in court, defending my content a couple of times since I began blogging because of the things and people I have written about. (I won both cases, just so you know). But, I'm not going to hide my greatness just because it makes low vibrating energy people uncomfortable.
- "I did not change, I remember who I am; I am a dragon and I do not have to hide my fire from humans anymore." 



Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl



Tuesday, October 10, 2017

Super girls don't cry



Do you believe in signs? Like when you're not sure what decision to make in your life and you come across an article that talks exactly about your current situation. Or when you hear a song and the lyrics speak directly to you! All those awesome serendipitous moments of clarity when everything makes sense. Yep! That's precisely what happened to me over the weekend. 




I don't listen to music in English at all. Last year, I fell in love with Italian and I concentrated basically in just learning and practicing that language only. This year, I added Portuguese and French to my studies. My music Playlist is a wonderful mix of Italian, Portuguese, and French songs. Actually, it's a mess! But, I love it! ;-)


Sunday night I was driving and I was actually feeling a bit lost, and almost crying. There are so many things that I still want to do in this life time (Non ordinary, non conformity things, you know) and it's really hard to decide what to do when you have so many fucking ideas!!! Ugh! 


So, long story short, I pressed the wrong button when selecting my Playlist and the song "Supergirl" by Reamonn began to play. Ohhhhh man! I haven't heard that song in years, but this time it was definitely talking about me. I had a moment there when I totally lost my cool and I finally cried. I regrouped after my little dramatic incident (Actually, it was a pretty fucking big dramatic incident! Lol). I told myself, "Snap out of it! Just follow the lyrics of the song, 'I'm a Super girl and Super girls don't cry.' I better get my shit together, man! Because 'I'm a Super girl and Super girls just fly.'"


Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl



Thursday, August 31, 2017

I'm an uncontrollable bitch with POWER.



I'm the kind of person who's always going to use what people say about me for my own marketing. If they say something positive, I might use it; however, if they're talking shit about me or my kids and I find out about it, I will most definitely use it!

I've always loved finding ways of turning a negative situation or event into something positive, especially if I can use it for my brand. And of course, I don't let anyone get away with bullshit! I never have and I never will! 

Javier Tiscareno
In September 2015, my ex-husband Javier, told our daughters that he couldn't handle them anymore because they had both become "uncontrollable little bitches just like their mom." Aww! Leave it to Javier to always be an asshole to his own kids. This is the reason why he surrendered all his parental rights to me, in October 2015. At the time, I was taking a break from writing. So, I didn't bust his balls right away. 

Unfortunately, my youngest daughter Sabrina, committed suicide on March 19, 2016. She was 16 years old. I don't feel any guilt about her suicide because I was the only parent that never gave up on her! 

I'm getting stronger every day and I hope I can soon start writing again. It's been a while and I've been missing it. Obviously my life has changed, but the fire within me is never going to die. I have so much to write about. 

Yes, I agree with Javier. I am an uncontrollable bitch, but I am an uncontrollable bitch with POWER.   (See how I used his own words for my marketing. Someday, he'll learn to keep his mouth shut).




Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Tuesday, August 8, 2017

I'm FREE to do anything!!!


"Only after disaster can we be resurrected. It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." - Chuck Palahniuk




Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Monday, July 17, 2017

My last year working as a Bail Bond Agent - 2017


I've decided to share with you that 2017 would be my last year working as a Bail Bond Agent in California. Thank you for watching my video. 


Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl



Tuesday, June 20, 2017

I'm not a woman. I'm a hurricane with skin.


I would like to thank my dear friend Andrew McManus, for inspiring me to write this quote. Andrew and I began working in the bail bond industry almost at the same time back in 2008. He has been calling me "Hurricane Nancy" for many years now. Today, I would like to tell Andrew: "You're right dude, I'm a hurricane with skin". ;-) 




Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Thursday, June 15, 2017

I will continue to tell my stories...

I own everything that has happened to me, and I will continue to tell my stories. If people wanted me to write warmly about them, they should've behaved better.


Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl



Tuesday, June 13, 2017

You Can Dream Bigger

I try not to associate with people who are "dream crashers". People who asked, "That's so dumb, why do you want to do that?" (My ex husband used to tell me that all the time ) Or, "Are they going to let you do that?" As if I would ever ask permission to do what I want. Or even, "But Nancy, how are you going to do that?" Well, if I want to do something so badly, I think the "how" will come. So, I don't worry about the "how". 

Given explanations to people who are never going to understand you is just a waste of time. But, when you meet people on the same path as you; it's definitely a great feeling to know that you're not alone.

I think this is why we should all be supporting each other in the pursuit of our dreams instead of judging or belittling others. We all have dreams, might as well make them big! 



Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl




Thursday, June 8, 2017

Sólo me tengo a mí misma

"Soy demasiado inteligente, demasiado exigente, y demasiado ingeniosa como para que alguien pueda encargarse de mí completamente. Nadie me conoce o me ama totalmente. Sólo me tengo a mí misma". - Simone de Beauvoir




Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl



Thursday, June 1, 2017

BEAST MODE


I knew that people were going to criticize me regardless of what I did after my teenage daughter committed suicide. I had to choose between being depressed; possibly popping Xanax, drinking beer, wasting my life on the couch. Or, becoming the best version of myself.

I've always been a warrior; and, I'll continue to be a warrior. I know it's hard to understand, I even lost some friendships. But, I'm at a point of my life where I gotta do what is best for me.

I survived what was meant to destroy me. And I came back like a boss: fearless, wiser, stronger, and even trilingual. A complete BEAST



Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Tuesday, May 2, 2017

È una nuova vita per me

On October 15, 2016, I baptized myself with a new life off the Adriatic sea. My soul was telling me to do this; and so, I did! Now, I only want to go on adventures and live the rest of my days without conformity or restrictions. *È una nuova vita per me.


Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl

Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Just when we think we've figured things out...

Just when we think we've figured things out, the universe throws us a curve ball. So, we have to improvise. We find happiness in unexpected places. We find our way back to the things that matter the most. The universe is funny that way. Sometimes it just has a way of making sure we wind up exactly where we belong. 
                                                                            - Meredith Grey



Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Thursday, April 6, 2017

And suddenly you know...

It's time to start something new and trust the magic of new beginnings. 


Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Tuesday, April 4, 2017

Take your passion and make it happen

All alone I have cried
Silent tears full of pride
In a world made of steel
Made of stone


Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Thursday, March 30, 2017

No es el fín del Mundo


Los grandes cambios siempre vienen acompañados de una fuerte sacudida. No es el fín del mundo. Es el inicio de uno nuevo.


Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Tuesday, March 28, 2017

Always Bringing Back Souvenirs


Most people are afraid of going to hell... I've been there a few times; and, I always bring back souvenirs. 




Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Tuesday, March 21, 2017

When I Thought I'd Lost Everything, I Realized I Still Have...


 FREEDOM to do what I want
 The rest of the world to travel
 Thousands of people to meet
 Infinite things to discover
 Languages to learn
 Service to others



Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl 


Thursday, March 16, 2017

That's How Winning Is Done!


"But it ain't about how hard you hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!" - Rocky Balboa



Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Tuesday, March 14, 2017

It's Pretty Obvious What I Chose To Do

After my daughter Sabrina committed suicide in 2016, I had two choices...
Stay depressed and cry or put more lipstick on and kick some ass.
I think it's pretty obvious what I chose to do.


Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Thursday, March 9, 2017

Dentro de mí vive una alma GUERRERA


Nací en Guatemala 
tierra de los Mayas.
Dentro de mí
vive una alma GUERRERA.



Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Tuesday, February 14, 2017

I'm Still Standing


After everything I've been through, I'm still standing. It's not because I'm strong. It's because I'm fucking crazy. And that... should scare you. 



Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl


Monday, February 6, 2017

I'm Not The Same Human I Once Was...



I'm not the same human I once was. A lot has changed. A lot had to changed. So, you shouldn't expect out of me what I embodied in the past. For that part of me no longer exists. 



Nancy Tiscareno - Super Bond Girl